Lest you think we talk about nothing
but diabetes, you would be wrong. Several are avid NASCAR fans and
some of us enjoy photography. A couple of the group are true geeks
when it comes to computers and they enjoy solving problems for the
rest of us. One of those into photography is an avid bird watcher as
is another member that has several binoculars plus one with a built
in camera. We do enjoy talking about various topics outside of
diabetes.
Diabetes is often our topic of
discussion and we have had plenty to research to discuss lately with
all of us now on insulin with the exception of Sue who is not on any
medications. We all encourage her to do all she can to stay off
medications. She is still doing quite well in her efforts and likes
the positive feedback she receives from us. She spends some extra
money to test more frequently at present while she is learning how
different foods affect her blood glucose. Her doctor is supporting
her and has been able to convince her medical insurance company to
allow her extra test strips for a few months and then they will bring
her back down in reimbursed test strips.
Among the ten of us, we see three
different diabetes specialists and it has been very interesting to
compare notes. Eight of the ten are within ten pounds of ideal
weight for their body build (some above and a few below) and only two
of us (Max and myself) are overweight. We are working to bring our
weight down. Both of us have been approached by our doctors to
consider bariatric surgery, but we agree this will not happen and our
doctors have stopped pushing the topic. The hospital is pushing the
topic and we have told them to stop because for us it was not going
to happen.
We have even been approached by others
that do not have diabetes wondering how we were resisting. We now
give people a card with the applicable URLs on it when they ask about
what we plan to do. We tell them it is a personal decision on our
part, but they can do as they please; however, we think they should
read what the surgeons will not tell them. One surgeon has asked
that I stop what I am doing and not answer people’s questions. I
politely said, if the person asks, he cannot prevent me from talking
about it. I am only a patient and not an employee of the hospital,
therefore he cannot do anything to me if another patient asks me
questions. I did say that we were not seeking these people out, but
they were coming to us with questions.
There are now three of us with
neuropathy. One (Jason) is from diabetes and Max and myself from
other causes. Nine of the ten of us are on insulin and Ben and Allen
are working diligently to keep their weight from creeping up and have
been successful to date, by lowering their carbohydrate intake. Ben
and Allen are working with Barry to exercise daily and Max and I are
taking part, as we are able. Max is struggling now as he had two
warts removed from his left foot and his doctor will not allow him to
walk except as needed for a few weeks and then with the assistance of
a crutch. His doctor is very pleased with the progress of healing.
Allen is now in the upper normal range
for both Vitamin B12 and Vitamin D and feeling much better. Ben has
not had any more depression problems and like he said, by working
diligently he is holding steady with his vision and actually feels it
is getting better. He has his next appointment late this month to
have his eyes examined again and we are all wishing him well.
I like photography, but lately I have
been busy with other activities and have not had time to participate
with the rest. I have also been busy driving my wife to her
appointments with the doctors and surgery for her injured shoulder,
rotator cuff and torn tendons. Therefore, my projects have been
taking a back seat as well. I would not do otherwise, but it is
starting to wear on both of us. She needs assistance with her
clothes, and her hair. I admit I do not do well in handling her hair
and putting it up in a ponytail. For some this is easy, but for some
reason I am not as coordinated as I need to be, and my fingers are
too large.
Brenda will be busy this summer with her
grandchildren. Her daughter and husband will be taking a second
honeymoon. Like she said, they have earned it and she will be happy
to have the two children for that time. Several of the group have
volunteered to assist on the weekends, but she assured us she would
ask only if needed. She did say that we would be invited for a
Saturday afternoon.
Two of the group will be in Alaska for
much of the summer. One has a relative living in Juneau, and they
are planning to travel to some areas. We have asked for pictures.
They said we may have to wait until they return.
Most of the rest will be here, except
for day trips to see some of the nearby sites and be a tourist for
part of a day. To everyone, in the northern hemisphere at least,
have a great summer!